I went to the best baby shower ever yesterday.
First, it was at a pub. If you’ve never considered having a
baby shower someplace where beer is readily available? YOU SHOULD CONSIDER IT.
Second, it was co-ed. There were many menfolk there, and
they were all kind of excited to be included in what is normally a women-only occasion.
Third, there were no games. No one had to smell a melted
candy bar nestled into a diaper or look at it to try to determine what it was*
or any such nonsense. No games of any kind.
Fourth, the gifts were brought unwrapped. This was awesome
for me, as I’m the world’s worst wrapper, but it was also environmentally
friendly – no wasted paper! – and it meant we didn’t all have to sit around and
stare at my pregnant friend while she unwrapped presents, and then make the appropriate
cooing noises.
You might be a person who enjoys a traditional baby shower.
If so, trust me, you’ll probably have plenty more of them to go to, so you don’t
have to worry about the above party model breaking the mold. But please, oh
please, listen to me when I tell you WHY this was extra awesome:
I am a single woman. For a while I was a married woman. I
don’t, and never will, have children. HOWEVER. This has never prevented the
Baby Shower Quiz: “Ooooh, are you jealous of Mom to Be?” (No.) “Don’t YOU have children yet?” (Nope.) “Are you trying?” (Did
this person just seriously ask me about my sex life? NOT COOL, Aunt Mary!) “You
know, dear, you’re not getting any younger!” (I am, actually – due to an accident in a physics lab, I am aging in
reverse. Don’t tell anyone.) “Oh, you’re” (whispers) “divorced? Don’t worry
dear, the right man will come along soon. And you can always adopt.” (I was thinking I’d actually get 17 more
cats instead. Way more fun, and no college tuition to worry about.)
Here’s how many times I was asked any of the above at the
Best Baby Shower Ever:
Zero. None. Nada.
Instead? I got to hang out with good friends, one of whom I
had not seen in years (Shout out to
Marcia!) and enjoy the visible enjoyment of my pregnant buddies, who were
happy to be surrounded by people who loved them – and who also were having more
fun because WE were having fun.
I normally hate baby showers. But this? Was a really lovely
way to spend an afternoon.
So my next friend to have a baby better watch out – because this
is one idea I’m totally stealing.
*This is a real shower
game. I am not making it up. But I wish I was.
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